On certain headstones, coins become a code only the grieving fully understand. They are not payments for passage, but proof of presence: a quiet way of saying, “I stood here. I remember you. I still carry what we shared.” Each denomination deepens the message, from simple acknowledgment to the unbearable intimacy of having witnessed the final moment.

What looks like spare change to passing eyes is, in truth, a ledger of unseen stories. Training days survived together. Battles faced apart yet bound by the same uniform. Last breaths not taken alone. Over time, the coins weather and darken, but their meaning only sharpens: remembrance is not loud, and love does not always bring flowers. Sometimes it returns in silence, leaves a coin on cool stone, and walks away a little more whole.