The La Rochelle crash forced an intimate, painful reckoning: how do you tell someone who once taught you to cross the street that they may no longer be safe to drive on it? For many older adults, the car is more than transport; it is proof they still belong in the world, not just on its sidelines. Yet each delayed conversation, each avoided eye contact, leaves everyone exposed to a risk no one wants to name until it is too late.

Some countries are quietly rewriting this final chapter of driving life. Regular, respectful ability checks, voluntary license surrender with real mobility alternatives, and family talks guided by doctors or counselors can turn a moment of shame into a shared act of care. The question is no longer simply, “Can they still drive?” It is, “Can we build a society where stepping away from the wheel is met with gratitude, not disgrace?”